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Private Matchmaking · By Application Only

A More Intentional Way to Find Extraordinary Connection

PolyMatch Agency privately serves individuals, partnerships, and polyamorous families seeking meaningful relationships within polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Discreet, deliberate, and entirely human-directed.

Private Matchmaking

Looking for highly curated introductions?

Apply for confidential, personalized matchmaking designed around your relationships, lifestyle, and goals.

Vetted Database

Open to meeting an exceptional PMA client?

Apply to become part of our private network of vetted potential matches.

Join the Vetted Database

There is no fee to apply.

Relationship Readiness

Not sure where you belong yet?

Understand how prepared you are for the relationships you are seeking. Discover your strengths, growth areas, and recommended next steps.

Take the Readiness Assessment

Approximately 12–18 minutes.

Date Coaching

Want direction rather than introductions?

Apply for private one-to-one coaching on how you date — presentation, approach, boundaries, and patterns.

The Method

A proprietary vetting methodology

01

Application

A confidential intake capturing your relationships, structure, and intentions — saved as you go, resumable at any time.

02

Assessment

Our proprietary assessment engine assembles a unique sequence of questions measuring autonomy, communication, and readiness.

03

Vetting

Responses are reviewed for consistency and nuance, supported by analysis and finalized by human judgment.

04

Introduction

When there is genuine match potential, we make a deliberate, personally approved introduction.

Discretion, Explicitly

  • Database profiles are private and never publicly searchable.
  • There is no member browsing, swiping, or direct messaging.
  • Joining the database does not guarantee an introduction.
  • Every introduction is curated and approved by PolyMatch Agency.